I’ve been staring at the blinking cursor on blank posts over the last two months or so! I want to keep up with my blog to keep everyone informed on the wonderful world of Lucy, but unfortunately I have been lacking maybe inspiration and motivation, but definitely perspiration. Some updates: my life has taken some turns lately. My mom is going through some health issues and I’m preparing for a move back to my old place (it is nearly fixed up after the fire). I wrote here and here about the fact that my boyfriend and I are not having sex. We decided to see a kink friendly therapist. I feel so lucky to be living in a time when that kind of help exists! She is very knowledgeable about BDSM and is not only knowledgeable about polyamory, but also experienced as she lives that lifestyle. My boyfriend and I are pretty far out from knowing how things will work out, but the journey has been good so far. I’ve been holding off on any kind of kink (outside of what I do on my calls and cam shows). Sometimes I get antsy, but really all it takes to snap me back to feeling sure waiting is worthwhile is a moment with my boyfriend; him cracking me up to the point of tears, hugging him and smelling his neck or even just looking at his face and knowing it has been my favorite face for the last 12 years.
Aubrey and I have decided to put two girl days on hold for a little bit; probably until the new year starts but possibly longer. No worries, everything is great between us and I cannot wait to get back to it! Circumstances caused us to need to pause, but we will be back at it as soon as we can.
I expect to be spending many Wednesdays and some weekends at my parent’s house to help out with my mom’s health issues. This means even less time for updates on my blog, but I will do what I can. I’m looking forward to getting settled back into the old house with my roommate (and landlady). I’m looking forward to spending time with her as she is also a dear friend. I’m having trouble remembering the space in her basement (where I will be working), but I have an idea of how I want to set things up- hopefully with space for standing room as well as lounging while playing. So many of you like the full view and the room I’ve been working out of at my boyfriend’s house is just too small for that! I certainly won’t miss hitting my head on the slopping ceiling!
I am still working the hours on my schedule page, including availability via appointment on my days off, but I have been trying something new- a few hours every other Saturday (about 9am – 1pm EST). It’s been going great so far. Once I’m sure I’ll be sticking to this, I will update it on my schedule page with the upcoming dates. For now, I’m still thinking of this as a trial period. Feel free to check in by text, email, Skype or Yahoo if you want to know which Saturdays I’m working. I also want to note that I usually tweet when I have a schedule change, so if you can’t find me during my regular hours, peek at my Twitter page @LustyLucyPlays.
It has been two and a half years since I started doing this full time again and I am still very much into it! Every day there is something new and exciting happening. No matter what is going on in my life, my work provides a predictable constant- that no day is predictable and I love it!